I. Thou shalt make me happy. II. Thou shalt not have any interests other than me. III. Thou shalt know what I want and what I feel without me having to tell you. IV. Thou shalt return each one of my kindnesses and sacrifices with an equal or greater kindness or sacrifice. (I’m keeping score!) V. Thou shalt shield me from anxiety, worry, hurt, pain and any negative consequences of my behavior. VI. Thou shalt eternally provide me with self-worth and self-esteem. VII. Thou shalt be grateful for everything I do. VIII. Thou shalt not disagree with me, show anger toward me, or otherwise disapprove of anything I do. IX. Thou shalt be so caring and loving that I need never take risks or be vulnerable in any way. X. Thou shalt love me so completely that you cheerfully devote your entire life to my happiness, regardless of your own needs, feelings or values. | 
