Dyad IntensiveTM: A Better Way for CouplesOverview Objectives –- Fast Track Start – Intensive start to create a rapid, dramatic shift for couples who are:
- Emotionally disengaged and isolated; leading increasingly separate lives.
- Experiencing a loss of passion, interest and intimacy.
- Gridlocked – entrenched and stuck in conflicting positions that may be incompatible and mutually exclusive.
- Sustained Momentum – Transfer gains from therapy to home with phased step-downs.
- Establish a “culture of two” to continuously nurture and deepen the relationship.
- Master skills necessary to regulate conflict and repair damage.
- Create a new communication bridge for addressing core issues and recurrent problems.
- Integrate these changes into self-sustaining daily routines and activities.
- Step-downs in duration and/or frequency of sessions as momentum develops.
Assessment & Design Phase – The beginning is itself a therapeutic intervention. The couple completes assessment questionnaires prior to the first meeting. The consultation involves about 6 to 8 hours of contact time with both clinicians spread over 1 to 3 meetings. The goals are: - Understand the core issues in the relationship, the obstacles they present to marital satisfaction and how the couple can use these issues positively.
- Understand the role that personality style differences and similarities contribute to recurrent problems, and how to use them positively.
- Clarify and deepen awareness of each person’s life dreams and visions with an eye toward creating a shared vision that sustains and enriches the relationship.
- Create a shared vision for the relationship that supports each person’s personal vision and goals.
- Design an Action Plan, an initial strategy for achieving the shared vision. This includes a menu of options from which the couple selects the course that best suits their situation.
- The Action Plan menu may include:
- Intensive sessions and additional services we offer
- Referral to other clinicians
- Reading and homework exercises
- Consultation with other types of professionals
Action Phase – Together, we help you refine and implement the initial Action Plan. This is intended to be a continuously collaborative process. As you and we work together to execute the Action Plan, we keep alert for needed or desired modifications. Continuing Your Journey – Your vision will take time to achieve and effort to maintain. You may want to continue the process with us while you have momentum, or check in periodically for a refresher or relapse prevention. Or you may be finished. It’s your call.
For questions or scheduling, call us at 832-618-5156 or 713-922-6751 Larry & Evelyn
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